I lost my husband 6 months ago to COVID-19. The pain is still fresh, especially at night when the house is quiet. How are other widows coping with the loneliness? Any advice from those further along in this journey?

MaiTendai, I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 3 years ago. The first year was the hardest. What helped me was joining a widows' prayer group at my church. We meet every Wednesday to pray and share our struggles.

I'm also a recent widow. The nights are the worst. I started listening to gospel music softly in the background which helps me sleep. Also, don't be afraid to ask family to stay with you sometimes.

My dear, I lost my husband 15 years ago. Time doesn't heal completely, but it gets easier. My advice: 1) Don't make big decisions in the first year 2) Find one small thing each day to be grateful for 3) Talk to your children if you have them - they're grieving too.

MaiTendai

15 hours ago

Thank you GogoMuchena. Your wisdom means so much. I will try to follow your advice, especially about the gratitude.

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